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Cake day: February 18th, 2024

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  • Yup. Granted it was after I begged for money because I was going to be homeless and pants shittingly terrifying. And not something I ever want to do again because I felt so so so guilty. I used every cent to everything necessary. Hell someone was like “Get a treat!” and I was like “Fuck that. Bills.” but also mostly because I couldn’t stomach the idea of spending the money on anything other than what was strictly necessary because I hated myself as is

    So paid but… with fine print I should have read lol







  • If therapy were an option, I would have taken it by now. Unfortunately, such things are not available to me. At least, not therapists that are willing to take me on. Primarily due to the fact that I have had therapists in the past openly say that they are not qualified to handle my case. So I’ve just given up. Some people just aren’t meant to be happy. So now I guide others to a treasure I may never possess.

    Anyway, time for WILTY and sleep. Have a good night.


  • Sorry, my comment was very unclear if that’s how you’re taking that.

    When I said one of the many reasons I meant that I have a literal laundry list of reasons that I’ve permanently sworn off romantic entanglements so that I don’t cause emotional grief for other people as well as causing the emotional grief for myself. Like I don’t want to get into a relationship because I have so much baggage that I’m having a difficulty dealing with on my own. I don’t want to put that on someone else.

    The ADHD portion is just that I am dealing with my ADHD very badly. If I’m dealing with it that badly on the surface then it will only compound further issues down the line for me.

    I was speaking from a personal perspective, not as a universal truth or that it applies to anyone else but me. Genuinely sorry it came off other than how I intended.




  • I really hope that didn’t come off like I was actively criticizing you or anything. That is not the thing that I was trying to do. I was more just making a terrible joke at my own expense. I am extremely glad that you were able to get out of that though. Considering I have also been in extremely similar circumstances, if not the same circumstances at the moment, then yeah, I can really appreciate actually being able to get out of that situation because it’s what I want to be able to do. So I have nothing but all of the love for you, my friend, that you were able to get there. No jealousy. I hope you have a great day.