Iirc the issue is that it people click later later later until it just forces itself upon the computer and of course that happens at the most inconvenient time. It should apply it somehow in the background and just automatically switch to that updated version when you next turn it on. So some sort of A/B model perhaps.

Power users and enterprise, that should be disabled by default. But for most users, you really need to force it at some point, even though it sucks