• Chloé 🥕@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    ok so a couple things for the people in this thread:

    1. sometimes, when people complain, they don’t want advice. they just want to vent their frustration. that’s ok. your advice is just gonna come off as annoying, especially
    2. if they’ve heard it a billion times already. and trust me, if you’re on the fediverse and complain about windows or macos, you’ve heard “just use linux lol” before.
    3. holy shit stop doing victim blaming. this goes for everything btw. like. stop. “lol your fault for using windows” shut up. if you’re already doing victim blaming for trivial stuff, i don’t trust you for when much more serious problems arise.
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      6 days ago

      You’re not a victim for using windows, you’re a consumer. “I cant stop using windows because i have stockholm syndrome don’t blame me” is like the most unhinged take ive heard so far and is super disrespectful to anyone whos actually been a victim of just about anything.

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            5 days ago

            What I’m suggesting is that if we’re going to pretend that consumers are never victims of company practices, then emeralddawn specifically should never, ever, ever complain about shrinkflation. Or $80 video games, as far as I’m concerned.

            But who knows. Perhaps they don’t.

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      6 days ago

      These are decent points, but if you would use Linux you would not have these problems! You would have different problems, but somehow blame others, like why didn’t make X decent drivers for Linux, or why am I still forced to use Teams…

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      My takeaway from point 1 is to rephrase my advice as a complaint:

      “Man, it sucks you have that problem with Windows. I’ve been struggling with a computer problem of my own actually. I’ve been getting really down down thinking about all the Windows users out there who just have no clue about how the power of Linux could change their lives for the better”

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        6 days ago

        This makes you sound like a Jehova’s witness.

        The main problem is that linux people are politically linux people, their morals and identity are strongly attached to their OS choice, and they have no social skills.

        You can advocate for linux to windows people all you like, you just can’t be annoying. A lot of linux people are really fucking annoying.

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          5 days ago

          This makes you sound like a Jehova’s witness.

          Idk if that’s a valid comparison… being a Jehovah’s witness doesn’t save you a penny in software licensing costs

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            5 days ago

            They’re just saying it sounds like them, not that it’s the same thing. They believe they’re saving your soul.

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            5 days ago

            The comparison is the door-to-door evangelism, i.e., it’s really easy to tell that that phrasing has an ulterior motive. Kinda like how “Netflix and chill” does not mean “let’s watch Netflix.”