• Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 months ago

    Though I’m a cishet man and my symptoms were more classic until puberty and I never had anything resembling a career 🤷

  • 5in1K@lemmy.zip
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    8 months ago

    The amount of times I was told I am not living up to my potential like I can control when my brain works amazing through willpower.

  • Lumidaub@feddit.org
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    8 months ago

    I don’t have a career which means that this one isn’t about me at all. So I got that goin’ for me which is nice.

  • Ananääs@sopuli.xyz
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    8 months ago

    Big up to all my fellow unsuccesful burned out ND millenials without houses or careers! You know who you are!

  • DaniNatrix@leminal.space
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    8 months ago

    80s baby who was always told “you just don’t try hard enough”. Sitting in my messy house, with two leaks that need to be addressed, having just been promoted for the second time in a year and feeling very called out.

    • ChaosCoati@midwest.social
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      8 months ago

      You’re doing a good job. Not sure if you needed to hear that from an internet stranger, but I felt called out too so you’re not alone.

  • Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online
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    8 months ago

    I keep telling myself my burnout (which lead to finding out I’m AuDHD) is because of menopause which I don’t think has actually started yet…so absolutely not looking forward to it actually happening.

    I’m going to fill the tub with e gel and just live in it.

    • ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works
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      8 months ago

      Oh hey, me too! Good times eh? I finally feel like I’ve balanced out a bit with getting on ADHD meds, my brain works again.

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          8 months ago

          Yup. They got me back to functioning, basically where I was before the breakdown. But I feel like now that I know that I’ve always been living in hard mode, that it could be better. Unfortunately I don’t have a dr, but I do have a kinda telehealth dr who’s been lovely so I’m going to broach looking at different meds. I’ve waited a year so she doesn’t think I’m looking for drugs, but has been receptive to me mentioning that I’d like a change.